There are days when all of us wonder what we are doing online so much of our day. Are you feeling vulnerable when reading stories of others who might not be doing well or fearfully comparing your stories to that of others? This is one of the drawbacks of joining an online community. You take the good with the bad and the ugly. So how can you protect yourself on Facebook?
If you are in feeling sad or anxious, perhaps choosing not to log in or only logging in to read your private message may be a good strategy. Or you might consider a Facebook break, and give the groups time to cool down and then jump back in when you are feeling stronger and wish to reconnect with others who are affected by mesothelioma.
There are many who feel the need to share, share and share again, and others who wish to maintain their privacy and participate on a limited basis. Some friend everyone in sight and then get bombarded with messages and feeds, while others judiciously join in and make friends slowly and carefully. Friends can be fleeting on Facebook. You do have the option to “unfriend” someone whose posts are particularly disturbing to you and perhaps send them a simple note as to why you might be unfriending them.
The Foundation is sensitive to the needs of those in the community and wishes to make the Facebook support group experience one that provides accurate information, support and the ability to connect with others. We will never exploit those in our community and respect your privacy and emotional well-being. Please contact any staff members with suggestions, comments, or even criticism. That is how we learn how best to care for our community.